**I have wanted to write this post for several weeks but had to wait until my cognition was good. Please bear with me if I ramble a bit.**
Christian, Atheist, Agnostic?
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There are also some Christians I think of as agnostically Christian. There are no roots to their 'belief'. Maybe they just believe because they don't know that there is a choice to be made. Maybe they, like I once did, believe only out of familial tradition.
I first came to truly believe in the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit through searching my own heart and mind. I had already heard the Gospel and had even been baptized as a youth. My belief was solidified by a few different things but I think it was mostly from using a process of elimination.
Reasons
There are questions that we all have at some point about our origin and purpose. Trying to find answers to those questions is what helped me find my way to faith and belief. I say 'helped' because there were other things that happened in my life but some people would write them off as being based on feeling instead of logic. So, for this post, I will stick with the logical.
I think that just as there are some people who have a shaky claim on faith - via tradition and culture - there are also people who hang their disbelief on those things. What I wonder is if any of those folk ever devote time to seriously considering their positions? Do they ever occasionally re-evaluate their stance, if they give it any thought at all? Or do these people just fall into the melody of whatever their belief is and never stop to pay attention to the lyrics? Let me explain by using a story about a very popular song from the 1970s.
The group Earth, Wind & Fire (EWF) was really popular worldwide in the 70s, 80s, and 90s and they still perform today. In the black community, EWF was super popular. One of their 'love' ballads, Reasons, was so popular that it was sometimes played at weddings.
A very moving and beautiful song, right? But this is what the EWF's lead singer Philip Bailey said about the song (even he couldn't believe couples played it at weddings):
The full lyrics are at the bottom of this post. Here are some of them:"It's not talking about real love," Philip says. "It's talking about a one-night stand." (source)**
Now, I'm craving your body, is this realWhat a love song, right? He wants her - not for his wife - but just for a night... I wouldn't want those lyrics as part of a holy ceremony any more than I would want to play The Jacksons Shake Your Body Down to the Ground in the middle of the church.
Temperatures rising, I don't want to feel
I'm in the wrong place to be real
Woah and I'm longing to love you, just for a night
To be honest, I am the worst person for listening (or not) to lyrics and I listened to that song on repeat when I was young, angsty, and hormonal. I was one of those people who thought of Reasons as a love song until I first heard about the Philip Bailey quote in a book by G. Craige Lewis. He is a pastor who exposed a lot of interesting information about the hidden spiritual manipulation in Hip Hop music. In the past, Lewis was a bit controversial - not so much for his message but for his manner of delivery. By the ways, I think that every believer who enjoys secular music should read or listen to Lewis' message of "The Truth Behind Hip Hop". Just Google it.
But do you see the point? People listened to how beautiful that song sounded and how it made them feel without giving proper thought to the lyrics. I think this is sometimes the way we handle the serious business of faith. This is why the so-called Prosperity message is popular in some churches. This is why some people choose a church based on how good the choir is instead of what message is being taught. This is why people get involved with cults and the occult. We have to be careful to focus on the words (lyrics) of a message.
Faith Maintained
I said that I sought out (and continue to do so) answers to questions as I came to Christ. I answered the major questions by studying the Bible and secular history. I maintain my belief by prayer and faith. It's not like I came to the Lord, received salvation and then life got wonderful. Life is still very difficult. In some ways, it's more difficult because I can't numb it or distract from the way I did when I was a willful sinner.
I have a chronic illness and I suffer from severe depression. I can't do drugs or excessive alcohol. I'm sometimes very lonely for male companionship but I can't have random "hookups". I have two failed marriages, some broken friendships, and a lot of regrets that haunt me hour by hour. I am very careful about who I let into my life. My soul is free but I'm still paying human consequences for things done in my past. Every day that I wake up still sane and able to thank God for my salvation is a miracle.
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I think that some people are atheistic because of anger or heartbreak or grief. They rail against a God they don't believe in because they feel let down or cheated by some tragedy in their lives.
There are some notable (and atheist) comedians who, in their jokes about God and religion, display a lot of anger and contempt. (By the way, I have noticed that many of them focus their rants only on the Christian God.) Some of them say that they think religion and faith are silly and useless or a crutch for the weak. Some of them just find Christian belief unbelievable. I pray for them, of course, and I always wonder what it feels like to hurt without hope. What must it be like to face the sorrow and pain of life without the sustenance of inner joy? When the comedian Robin Williams was alive, I thought that for someone so frenetically humorous, he had the saddest eyes I'd ever seen. When he died, I prayed that he had found peace with God at last. When some people die, I wonder if they truly are 'resting in peace'. We do like to sling around the RIPs, don't we. Anytime someone dies - no matter what they believed or not in life - we can't wait to hashtag our wishes of peaceful rest. What peace or rest is there for one who believes that their life was only a temporary thing and that death is an eternity of nothingness?
I still grow in my faith and I still struggle with my sin but I am solid in my belief. What I want to do here is post some questions for people to think about. Whether you are Christian, atheist, or agnostic, I think you should spend at least some time thinking about why you believe what you believe.
Origins, Being & Purpose
- If this life is all there is, and there is nothing afterward, why bother with rules and decorum and love and joy. Why not just go on a full-on hedonistic joy ride through life?
- Regarding the "big bang" (that created everything from nothing): what banged? (And, yes, people ask the same thing about God.and I agree with this answer)
- What would convince you that there is no God?
- What would convince you that God is?
- Where did language come from?
- Where did love, honor, laughter, sorrow, regret, pride, anger, compassion, deceit, etc come from?
- Regarding evolution: why aren't we all one type of animal? Or one gender? And why don't we keep evolving without the help of the laboratory?
- If God is a myth, where did the myth or the need of it originate?
- What is good? What is evil? Where did the concepts come from?
- Regarding whatever you believe: What is the point? Is there a point? Do you want there to be a point?
- Can you prove that Jesus did not exist?
- Regarding the Bible prophecies: can you explain the accuracy? Can you disprove the accuracy?
- Regarding your faith: Why do you believe what you believe?
When I was younger, if my mother saw me making poor decisions or having a bad attitude about anything, she would say something to me that I still hear in my head: "You need to examine yourself." My dad was more countrified and would simply tell me that I needed to "study on that" - 'that' being my sassy mouth or negative behavior.
My parents' advice is as good now as then. In order to truly think about something - to come to a decision, it's important to put aside pride and stubbornness. If you are making a decision about what to believe or not to believe, you need to have answers as honest and clear as can be. I hope no matter where you stand now in belief, unbelief, unconcern, that you are willing to die for and with it. Another thing my mother used to point out is that our next breath is not promised to us.
Peace
--Free
** Full lyrics to Reasons by EWF**
Now, I'm craving your body, is this real
Temperatures rising, I don't want to feel
I'm in the wrong place to be real
Woah and I'm longing to love you, just for a night
Kissing and hugging and holding you tight
Please let me love you, with all my might
Reasons, the reasons that we hear
The reasons that we fear
Our feelings a won't disappear, ooh
And after the love game has been played
All our illusions were just a parade
And all the reasons start to fade
La, la, la, la
After all our reasons why
All the reasons were a why
After all the reasons love was left aside
I'm longing to love you for one night
Please let me love you with all of my might, baby
Ooh baby
Reasons, the reasons that we hear
The reasons that we fear
Our feelings a won't disappear
And after the love games have been played
All our illusions were just a parade
And all the reasons start to fade
And, in the morning when I rise
No longer feeling hypnotized
For no reasons, our reasons, our reasons
Have no pride
After all the reasons why
All of the reasons were a lie
After all the reasons why love was left aside
Heeh, ah, yeah, ooh, yeah, ooh baby
I can't find the reasons
That my love won't disappear
Can't find the reasons
Why I love you, my baby, my dear
Can't find the reasons
Wanna love you all night
Can't find the reasons
Gotta squeeze ya, real tight
Can't find the reasons
Baby yeah
For my tears
Can't find the reasons
Source: LyricFind
Songwriters: Charles Stepney / Philip James Bailey / Glenn White Maurice
Reasons lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Music Sales Corporation
